STORIES OF SUCCESFUL PEOPLE'S
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UNIVERSITY OF CHITTAGONG, BANGLADESH |
For those of you who are not good at GPA and are preparing for the admission test in various adverse situations, the purpose is something of my real life.
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During the admission test, there were two kinds of adversity in my life
1. GPA is relatively low,
2. Influence of close relatives regarding admission to Polytechnic.
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Adversity-1 :
First, come the GPA. I did not have GPA-5 in either SSC or HSC. But I am a student of one of the 4 autonomous universities of the country!
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Although the exam in DU was bad, I did as well as expected in RBI, CUB and GUCHHE. GPA-4 could not stand behind my small success! Many of the people I met did not get a chance to read more, but many of them got a chance to read less. Not all of them got GPA-4 chance, many of them got GPA-4 chance at reputed universities like DU, RU, CU, JAB. If you look at the statistics of the HSC examination of 2021, the matter will be clear. This year, 1,69,179 students got GPA-5. And the total number of seats in all public universities is only about 50,000. That means 4 times more GPA-5 of the total seats. Then who will get the chance?
- All A +?
- No, all A + will never get a chance, hard workers will get a chance. Remember, having a minimum GPA to apply means you have the ability to get a chance. All you need is a good plan. And to study according to the plan using honest time as much as possible. In sha Allah those who work properly will be successful.
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Adversity-2:
The biggest hurdle during the admission test was the kunjar of a blood relative. Those are much more prosperous than us financially. Even if it doesn't help financially or emotionally, it is our policy maker. If you go in a bad direction, you will not identify yourself, but if you want to go in a good direction, you will change the road by misunderstanding. So that in no way can I go to their level. I still remember a childhood story. For some reason I wanted to leave the village high school and enroll in a private school (Srishti Central School and College) in Jamalpur. My older brother (actually my guardian) had no objection even though he was completely unemployed then. But the so-called guardian had an objection. He used to say in front of people that I want to be admitted as a cadet. Due to such attitude and word of mouth, it was not possible to change the school.
Even after all these things, after the SSC examination, I took refuge in them in the college elections. But instead of advising me that my results were bad, he joked, "Get admitted to Notre Dame College." Then when I was admitted to Maulana Mohammad Ali College in Tangail in my own mind, he claimed that he had asked me to be admitted to the Polytechnic many times in front of my brother. But said to be admitted to Notre Dame! There was a reason to say that in front of the brother. They knew very well that I would never tell the truth. If I had said that, it would have been disrespectful in their eyes. One of the words was Nasim = Polytechnic. Maybe Nasim = the university was completely out of place in their eyes. My life but the right to make decisions belongs to the rich. Honestly, my brother also looks at them with enough respect, so he can't say anything. Even if we do not want the result, they always have an authority over us. For which I said at the beginning they are our policy makers! However, the final move with the Polytechnic was made only 2 months before the admission test. I was admitted to the Polytechnic at any cost. Somehow it was forced.
The thing for me was that if I studied, only Polytechnic would be left out otherwise! But the long 9/10 months of waiting for the test is very close. Once upon a time I was forced to say, "Will your child go to medical school, and we will go to polytechnic?" I have not heard less for this. Only going to the High Court was excluded. Pressure was created from all sides. So I was forced to stop communicating with everyone and left in search of a destination. There was a time when everyone was at the reading table and I was silently wetting the pillow with tears in my eyes. It always seemed like the hardest time of my life. My older sister used to say, "Study with your heart, don't worry about money. I will tell you 2/1 days before the money is needed. I will raise it." Apa never thought for herself, for her family. He thought of how to take me forward. Sometimes I think, what will happen to those who do not have an older sister in a situation like mine? GOD is the best planner. Somehow, like me, it will be collected. Financially and emotionally, friends Mazhar and Shakil helped a lot. I will be forever grateful to them. Even if the family and the rich people went out of the network, the rich man's relatives used to tell many people in secret that there would be no chance for my bad result. When I got the chance, I sniffed at the doubt about whether I would get English or not. Alhamdulillah !! Now I am one of the English department of Chittagong University. I did not feel the need to tell them such good news. Tell me why? Instead of trying to recover, they wallow in their sadness and thus, experience more failure. Even if the villain is abandoned!
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No matter how much people try to humiliate you !? As long as Allah, the Lord of the heavens and the earth, is with you, no one will be able to disgrace you even a hair. In sha Allah. Today's small success is due to the mercy of God. Many teachers, friends, elder brothers, relatives have contributed in my life. I probably wouldn't be here today without their guidance and emotional support. I am grateful to all of them who helped me to reach this stage.
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Dear student friends, the last word for you, everyone has some problem in life. Problem-free human life is unimaginable. It is foolish to wrap yourself up with these excuses! Some express the problems and some keep it inside the chest and turn it into a weapon. Waiting for the right time. Success can be seen when all the adversities are ignited by the impact of the weapon. Waiting is just the right time. Patience and turning your life's sorrows into weapons. In sha Allah success will come towards you one day. Lots of blessings, good wishes and love for all!
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